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Commentary
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As
the oldest of three brothers, my main function growing
up was to act as ring leader. After all, who else were
the little tykes going to look up to? The
parents? No way, Jose. I
was the main man and they usually followed my lead. But,
sometimes they challenged my authority. From the late
1950's to the early 60s’ we lived on Beach 67 St. in a section of Queens, NY, known as Rockaway Beach. We lived about 200 yards
from the beach on what was affectionately known as a
summer block. Most of the houses on the street were old
three-story Victorian-style home with wraparound porches.
They were originally built for the wealthy who vacationed
in the Rockaways before the
Great Depression. I guess they got greatly depressed
when they saw us moving in. So they skedaddled out of
there in a hurry. These mansions had been turned into
rooming houses, some with as many as 30 rooms,
that were rented out for the summer to mostly
senior citizens looking to escape the summer heat of New York City. There were only six two-family
homes nestled together near the beach and we occupied
the bottom floor of one of them. We were called year-rounders on
account of the fact that we lived there all year round.
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One
of my primary duties as the ring leader was to lead the
boys, Steve and Jay, on expeditions that were designed
to drive my mother crazy. My father was already there
when we came along, so we didn’t have to drive him too
far. As an example of our activities in these endeavors,
I am reminded by my brothers of a time when we decided,
for some reason since lost to history, to leave youngest
brother Jay’s foot prints on the ceiling. Since Jay had
not mastered the art of walking on ceilings, if we were
to succeed in this venture, then we were going to have
to give him an assist and a boost up. That is exactly
what we did. Steve grabbed one leg and I grabbed the
other and somehow we turned young Master Jay upside down
and held him suspended in mid air whilst he left his
mark on the underside of our upstairs neighbor’s floor.
One man’s ceiling is another man’s floor, you know. I
am not sure if that rule applies equally to women. And
so the mysterious footprints were left where they were
sure to be discovered by avid Sherlock Holmes aficionado,
Esther Eisenberg.
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The
tricky part was for us to master the art of looking innocent.
If there were Academy Awards
for the best act of childhood innocence by a guilty
party or parties, then surely we would have swept the
Oscars
in that year. We withstood an interrogation the likes
of which have not been seen in New York City since before the Miranda
warnings were enacted in 1966. As a historical footnote,
I must inform you that the famous Miranda warnings became
law when show business personality Carmen Miranda was
stopped by the cops for driving with a banana on her
head. It seems that there was still some old but little
enforced eighteenth century law on the books about operating
vehicles with tropical fruit above the shoulders. Ms.
Miranda, in the waning years of her hasbeenship,
was hauled off to police headquarters and interrogated
ceaselessly. Since she spoke very poor English and didn’t
have the equipment to communicate with the police in
the way her modern-day counterpart Charo could(no coochie coochie for her), they threw the book at her. She complained
all the way to the Supreme Court who agreed to hear her
case. They didn’t understand it, but they were fans,
being old men themselves, and they agreed that a new
law was necessary. And thus the phrase, "You have
the right to remain silent, please," became part
of our culture. The please part was soon dropped since
comedian Henny Youngman claimed
copyright violations. Take me in, please.
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Meanwhile,
back at the scene of the crime, the three brothers were
undergoing severe interrogation by the parental units,
who adopted the old effective police technique of bad
cop/worse cop. We went well past the third degree and
were on our way to the fifth degree when young Jay cracked.
Since he was nearly seven years my junior at the time, (
he has since passed me) they somehow managed to
convince him to rat on his brothers. They told him that
since he was the youngest, he had more to lose. After
all, I was nearly thirteen and had lived a good life,
while he, on the other hand, still had much to look forward
to. A grisly death at his age would be a tragedy. Rumor
has it that he turned us in for the reward; he was left
alive, and I took most of the rap, since they were predisposed
to blame me for everything any way. I have no recollection
of this incident, other than I am certain that it was
Steve’s idea and that he planned the whole thing and
convinced us to go along for the ride.
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Many
months had passed before revenge was on its way, but,
due to a lucky accident, we finally got the opportunity
to strike back at the parental units. Well, the mother
any how, as she is the one we feared the most. She could
take us out with a slipper at 100 yards, and often did.
She was also adept at adapting common household items
as weapons of mass child abuse. A common hair brush or
a broom handle became a makeshift bottom paddler.
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A
porcelain pot or wooden hanger was a convenient head
basher. She once hit me in the head with a pot and
then punished me for chipping the porcelain with my head.
She made me go back into my room "Until you learn
how to act." After a few hours, I really wanted
to come out of my room which, unlike today’s kids rooms,
had no TV, stereo, video games, or any other modern
amenities. It merely had beds. When I finally begged
her to let
me out, she said, "Have you learned how to act yet?" to
which I replied in an Olivier like voice, "Yes,
I have. To be...or not to be." That
got me another whupping and
that is why I never continued with my acting lessons.
The stage’s loss is your gain.
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The
day of big revenge came quite by accident. It had its
antecedents in 1959 when my parents bought their second
television. Our first TV had been a Motorola purchased
in 1950, when I was only two years old. It was a sixteen-inch,
black and white console. Ironically, our lower eastside New York City tenement building on Ludlow Street was so old that it had
DC current. I think it was wired by Tom Edison himself
just to prove that DC was the way to go. So
popular, even poor immigrants in tenements could afford
it. It was the current choice of slum dwellers. Especially those that weren’t being electrocuted in the electric
chair powered by rival Nicola Tesla’s AC "Killer
Current." A fine marketing strategy that turned out to be. So my father
bought an AC TV, since that was what all of them were
in that day, and then had to buy a converter box for
$50 in order to watch an AC TV in a house wired for DC.
More than fifty years after New York City had begun electrification
and there still were buildings wired with DC current.
If you can imagine what it is to buy a $7,000 plasma
digital TV today and then have to spend another $500
in order to get a converter, so you can watch Jay Leno
in HDTV format, then you have some idea of what this
cost in 1950 to a man earning about $45 per week. We
got our first modern TV in 1959. It was a twenty-one-inch
Zenith table model with "Space Command" remote
control. It cost approximately $400, which was still
several weeks’ salary for my dad at that time, and it
was still black and white, as he did not believe that
color TV was perfected yet. It was only four years after
RCA introduced the first color TVs, and they were expensive
and not as good as today’s sets. Besides, you were forever
fiddling with the colors in order to try to get them
right.
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The
most advanced feature this TV had(and
the one that would allow me and my pirate brothers to
get a bit of revenge on mom) was the "Space Command" remote
control. First of all, it had a cool name, "Space
Command." After all, it was only two years earlier
that the Russians beat us into space with the launch
of the first satellite, Sputnik. We had yet to get our
Echo into space, but we had "Space Command" TVs.
Something the Ruskies didn’t
have. It was interesting how the system worked. The tuner
was linked to a motor. So you manually changed channels
by pressing a bar to go up or down. There was only
seven channels broadcasting out of a possible twelve.
There was no UHF yet either, which would come into existence
a few years later. Just in case the system broke, there
was conventional TV knob in the back for changing the
channels manually. In order to activate the remote control,
you had to flick a switch in the back of the set. Then
you pointed the four-button remote toward the set and
you could change channels up and down, turn the set on
and off and the volume on and off. The set on and off
was not what it appeared, as the set was not really turned
off when you used the remote. It appeared to be off but
the picture tube was still lit, so you would have to
manually turn the set off at the set to turn the set
off. Sounds really complicated, doesn’t it? As a footnote,
my brothers and I were not allowed to change channels
on the set or to use the remote because, as my mother
so tactfully phrased it, "You animals will break
it." If we were caught touching the tuning bar,
we had to go back to our room and continue our acting
lessons, if we were lucky enough to avoid death by a
blow to the head with a pot. If we were caught touching
the remote, then the death thing was almost a certainty.
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How
the remote worked is what leads up to my part in the
story. It was entirely mechanical and not at all electronic
or as magical as today’s infrared remotes that are so
common with most appliances. Personally, I think that
remote control has gone a bit too far. We now have remote-controlled
fans and air conditioners for the guy who is just too
lazy to get off of his fat butt and turn them off. No
wonder we are getting heavier as a nation. I can’t wait
for the remote-controlled toaster to make the scene.
Now if they can only figure out a way to put the bread
in it and take it out without having to get up, that
would be something I would pony up good money for. If
they can put a man on the moon, then why can’t they keep
him on earth? You see how silly that cliché can be? RCA
had a remote control device that looked like a Boy Scout
flashlight. You aimed it at the set and a beam of light
changed the channels. Now that was mystifying. The Zenith
Space Commander worked with a series of four tuning forks.
When you pressed a button, you were striking one of the
tuning forks that made a sound above the range of human
hearing. I am told that it actually drove dogs to drink.
Each tone apparently controlled one of the four functions.
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The
only one allowed to use this remote was my mother. We "animals" were
not allowed to even look in its direction for the aforementioned
reasons. Apparently, my brothers and I had some sort
of super powers that we were not aware of. We had some
sort of special vision that allowed us to break things
with just one glance. If only I learned to harness these
powers, think of the good I could have done. Never mind
that. Think of the mischief we could have created. We
could have made Bart Simpson look like a Boy Scout in
comparison. Being somewhat observant, in a Sleuthy and
not a religious way, I noticed that whenever my mother
was using the remote (she was usually prone on the couch
watching soap operas with a cigarette hanging from her
mouth) sometimes the channels would change mysteriously
by themselves when the phone would ring. It was this
observation that led me to the discovery of the technology
behind the Space Commander. It worked on sound waves
and sometimes the telephone rang in a certain way that
would set off the remote and change channels. I did not
know why it did this on occasion and not all of the time,
but I knew that it was possible to change the channels
without the remote as long as the set was turned onto
remote mode. This knowledge could be dangerous in the
wrong hands, namely, mine.
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One
afternoon, my middle brother and I were playing in the
back of the living room. Our living room was rectangular
shaped with the TV at one end and two barrel chairs on
the other. The couch was along the left wall and that
is where my mother would lay down to watch her shows.
She was watching one of those boring soap operas and
Steve and I were playing swashbuckling pirates in the
back of the room. Since we had no swords in order to
swash buckle, we used the next best thing. We had taken
two belts and were fighting each other using the buckles
to actually swash each other, whatever the heck that
means. Then, in one of those aha serendipitous moments,
IT happened.
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We
were hacking away at each other with the belts when,
all of a sudden, the belt buckles connected
and made a pinging sound. Coincidentally, at the
exact same moment the TV changed channels and "As the
World Turns" morphed into "One Life to Live" or
some other inane soap opera. Being the inquisitive kind,
I pondered as to whether or not one could assign causality
of the mysterious channel change phenomenon to the pinging
of the belt buckles. I conveyed the idea to my esteemed
colleague, Steven, and we set out to test our hypothesis.
After mom’s minor annoyance at the sudden interruption
of her program, she picked up the remote and put the
channel back where it was. She did that only after casting
a suspicious glance in our direction. We sat quietly
in the back of the room with halos properly affixed at
just the right height above our heads and patiently awaited
the right propitious moment.
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As
luck would have it that moment rapidly arrived and
on a cue from me, the experiment
began. Steven and I were ensconced in our barrel
chairs and as the signal was given at the right moment,
we purposely
banged the two belt buckles together. The magical "ping" had
occurred, and just as before, the channel on the TV changed.
Now my mother was starting to show some slight annoyance
while we immediately assumed our innocent and angelic
positions. Quietly seated in the back of the room, we
appeared to be the epitome and essence of innocence.
To the untrained eye, that is. We were really onto something
this time, and we aimed to take full advantage or our
newly acquired knowledge. This was our long awaited chance
to get even for all the things we were punished for that
we didn’t do and all those silly acting lessons. "To
be or not to be." We were about "to
take arms against a sea of troubles." And no doubt
bring down a reign of terror on our heads. But hey, we
had a good run. We had seen most of what there was to
see in life. Nobody lives forever and we were not about
to let this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity slip through
our fingers. Not on your life. So, after a sufficient
period of time had elapsed, we took out the two belt
buckles and brought them into close proximity with sufficient
thrust and force in order create the required pitch and
timbre that were needed to do the job. We heard the "ping" and
simultaneously the kaching kaching that
the motorized channel changer made when it was
doing its channel changing thing. A second successful
trial
was underway. This time the anger level of the
parental unit was beginning to rise. Would it reach
critical
mass? Would we survive the afternoon? Who cared?
We were on
a roll and nothing was going to stop this juggernaut.
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I
don’t think I need to draw you a road map as to what
happened next. We kept repeating the "ping-kaching" sequence.
As predicted, the channel would change and the anger
level was growing. She kept looking in our direction
and saying "You guys are doing something. I know
it." We, of course, continued to profess our innocence
and fired back with, "You are always blaming us
for stuff we didn’t do. I know I didn’t cause the Great
Depression and World War II because I wasn’t around then." We
then hit her with the clincher. The
one piece of indisputable information that logically
pointed to our innocence. "Besides, you have
the remote control." We had her there. And each
time the channel mysteriously changed, her first move
had shifted from immediately grabbing the remote to immediately
looking back in our direction to try to catch us in the
act. We were good. We were very good.
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But
she was certain it was us. Finally, I bolstered our
defense with a bit
pseudo scientific clap trap that sounded plausible
enough and was beyond her sphere of knowledge. "You
know, mom, I learned in school that there is a great
deal of
unusual solar activity occurring at this time. Perhaps
therein lies the explanation
of this phenomenon you are experiencing. It can be
summed up in two words. To wit, sun spots." I had her on
the ropes now and I went in for the kill. "You
know sun spots interfere with radio and TV communications
and we live halfway between Idlewild(later renamed Kennedy) Airport and the Nike missile base
at Fort Tilden. Perhaps the military
is experimenting with these sun spots. You never know
what is going on there. She wasn’t buying this very cleverly
crafted line of BS. "I know you guys are doing something
and when I find out what, you are in big trouble!"
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We
decided not to push our luck too far and let it go after
a while. When dad came home, he was briefed on the situation
and we were able to talk him out of any punishment because
at no time did we have any contact with the remote control.
The Space Commander was always in the hands of the accuser.
He knew that she would not even let him use it, so we
were in the clear. Besides, if that didn’t work, I was
busily refining the sun spot theory.
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And
that was the first time we were able to take revenge
on our parents for our dysfunctional upbringing. Of course,
if one looks at the Zeitgeist of the times, what is considered
dysfunctional today was SOP(Standard
Operating Procedure) back then. One era’s normal is another
era’s dysfunction. We did go on to bigger and better
things, like the time we hid an intercom in the broiler
and made mysterious voices appear out of the kitchen
appliances. But I will leave that story for another time.
Suffice it to say, that it is a good thing my parents
were not from the drinkers or else they may well have
headed in that direction. Then again, it may just have
been due to some abnormal atmospheric conditions like,
say, sun spots.
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And THAT, was my two-cents plain!
Irvmeister
The
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Meisterzingers
This
week’s shot at Martha Stewart arrives just in time for
the holidays via Sleuth Heidi from Firesongs Funnies.
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Dear
Santa
I rarely ask for much. This year is no
exception. I don't need diamond earrings, handy slicer-dicers
or comfy slippers. I only want one little thing, and I want it deeply.
I want to slap Martha Stewart.
Now, hear me out, Santa. I won't scar her
or draw blood or anything. Just one good smack, right across
her smug little cheek. I get all cozy inside just thinking about it.
Don't grant this wish just for me, do it
for thousands of women across the country.
Through sheer vicarious satisfaction, you'll
be giving a gift to us all.
Those
of us leading average, garden variety lives aren't
concerned with gracious living.
We feel pretty good about ourselves if
our paper plates match when we stack them on the counter, buffet-style for
dinner.
We're tired of Martha showing us how to
make centerpieces from hollyhock dipped in 18 carat gold. We're plumb out of
liquid gold. Unless it's of the furniture polish variety.
We can't whip up Martha's creamy holiday
sauce, spiced with turmeric. Most of us can't even say turmeric, let alone
figure out what to do with it.
OK, Santa, maybe you think I'm being a
little harsh. But I'll bet with all the holiday rush you didn't catch that
interview with Martha a while back in USA Weekend. I'm surprised
there was enough room on the page for her ego.
We discovered that not only does Martha
avoid take-out pizza (she's only ordered it once), she refuses to eat it cold
(No cold pizza? Is Martha Stewart Living?) When it was pointed out that she
could microwave it, she replied, "I don't have a microwave."
The reporter, Jeffrey Zaslow,
noted that she said this "in a tone that suggests you shouldn't either." Well lah-dee-dah.
Imagine that, Santa! That lovely microwave you brought me years ago, in which
I've learned to make complicated dishes like popcorn and hot chocolate, has
been declared undesirable by Queen Martha. What next? The
coffee maker?
In the article, we learned that Martha
has 40 sets of dishes adorning an entire wall in her home. Forty
sets. Can you spell "overkill"? And neatly put away, no less.
If my dishes make it to the dishwasher, that qualifies
as "put away" in my house!
Martha tells us she's already making homemade
holiday gifts for friends. "Last year, I made amazing silk-lined scarves
for everyone," she boasts. Not just scarves, mind you. Amazing scarves. Martha's obviously not shy about giving herself
a little pat on the back. In fact, she does so with such frequency that one
has to wonder if her back is black and blue.
She goes on to tell us that "homemaking
is glamour for the 90s", and says her most glamorous friends are "interested
in stain removal, how to iron a monogram, and how to fold a towel." I
have one piece of advice, Martha: "Get new friends."
Glamorous friends fly to Paris on a whim. They drift
past the Greek Islands on yachts, sipping champagne
from crystal goblets. They step out for the evening in shimmering satin gowns,
whisked away by tuxedoed chauffeurs. They do not spend their days pondering
the finer art of toilet bowl sanitation.
Zaslow notes that Martha was named one of America's 25 most influential
people by Time magazine (nosing out Mother Theresa, Madeline Albright and Maya
Angelou, no doubt).
The proof of Martha's influence: after
she bought white-fleshed peaches in the supermarket, Martha says, "People
saw me buy them. In an instant, they were all gone." I hope Martha never
decides to jump off a bridge.
A guest in Martha's home told Zaslow how Martha gets up early to roller blade with her
dogs to pick fresh wild blackberries for breakfast. This confirms what I've
suspected about Martha all along: She's obviously got too much time on her
hands. Teaching the dogs to roller blade. What a show
off.
If you think the dogs are spoiled, listen
to how Martha treats her friends: She gave one friend all 272 books from the
Knopf Everyman Library. It didn't cost much. Pocket change, really. Just $5,000. But what price friendship,
right?
When asked if others should envy her, Martha
replies, "Don't envy me. I'm doing this because I'm a natural teacher.
You shouldn't envy teachers. You should listen to them." Zaslow must have slit a seam in Martha's ego at this point,
because once the hot air came hissing out, it couldn't be held back.
"Being
an overachiever is nothing despicable. It is only admirable.
Never lower your standards," says Martha. And
of her Web Page on the Internet, Martha declares herself
an "important presence" as she graciously
helps people organize their sad, tacky little lives.
There you have it, Santa. If there was
ever someone who deserved a good smack, it's Martha Stewart. But I bet I won't
get my gift this year.
You probably want to smack her yourself.
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Letters to the Editor
Re:- Who Says No Two Snowflakes are Alike?
Dear Irv,
I
urge you to use your "healthy skeptisism" when
discussing conservation and other environmental issues
fraught with deception, but swallowed whole by the public
because THEY said so.
Sincerely Rich Winkle, East Quogue, NY
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You
are so right, Rich. If we are to apply our "healthy
skepticism" equally, we would have to conclude that
all this environmental nonsense is highly overrated.
After all, why should we err on the side of caution. The
earth looks much better from space now that it is brown
and not the shade of blue that it used to be. Breathing
clean air and drinking clean water is not all it is cracked
up to be. You don’t hear the animals complaining now,
do you? (-Ed.)
I
was busy reading the column just now and the strangest
thing happened - it started to snow - all identical snowflakes,
and they dropped on the heads of identical twin great
apes, both of whom had identical fingerprints and mirror
image DNA.
Oh
well - I guess I just have to finish reading this drivel
to find out what happened. Oh yeah - there is life in
the universe similar to ours, but nothing close to being
similar to yours. Writers are in a category all their
own - especially humorists (Humor? Shudder, shudder).
Wish
I knew someone from a publisher who could read your articles
and compile them into some kind of book. We can get it
published and entitle it "Laugh Your Ass Off." For
a humorist some of the things you write about are sometimes
actually (almost) funny.
Seriously,
though Irv. I have seldom been
bored with your work and I bore easily. That says something
for your style. It's light and comfortable. May I make
a suggestion? Some of the older comedians used to talk
about their childhood, their home life, their early married
life and stuff like that. These things might give you
an idea - a Sam Levinson type of monologue, with your
style and your ideas. That might come out being very
funny. Why not give something like that a shot?
Fred
Mass, Rockland, NY
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There’s
an idea, talk about my family and childhood. Now why
didn’t I think of that one? (-Ed.)
Yesterday when
I was walking the dogs three identical snowflakes fell
on my jacket sleeve. I rant back into the house to get
the camera and photographed them but I think the film
was faulty. In the picture they looked like water-they
still looked like each other but the pattern was missing.
Thanks
for confirming my suspicions. It’s too bad you lost the
evidence but keep yourself available as we may need you
to testify at the congressional hearings on official
BS passed off as truth. If they ever get around to holding
them that is. (-Ed.)
Dear Irvmeister
I
can't tell you how happy I am to be back on your list.
Somehow in the move I lost your address and I have been
searching for you since September. Today I found you
on Papa Thorn's list. I'm just glad to be back in the
fold.
I
am elated to be back on your mailing list. Your 12-07-02 column blew me away. Your
skepticism reminds me of Henry L. Mencken, the sage of Baltimore. In fact I believe you
surpass him. He had little empathy for the "mob",
whereas you seem to empathize with every man.
And
for G-d's sake, don't stop
writing.
Your
forever fan,
Jim Mc Quain
Lakewood, CO
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Thanks
for your kind words. It is nice to be missed.
I
am usually on Thorn's list every week, when he doesn't
forget to put me in, as well as Firesong Funnies
and many other humor pages. If you ever lose me again,
just do a Google search for
the Long Island Sleuth or Irvmeister. I do believe I am the only one that comes up
with that name.
Nice
to have you back as well,
I
do empathize with every man as all people are related,
whether they like it or not. (-Ed.)
Re:- Skimming the Corporate Fat...Suet!
Another great article. You must have ESP. I was going to write
to you and suggest not only this subject for one of your
excellent articles but also the nonsense in Florida where
the parents of some kids are suing over their kids bad
soccer ( I think) league winnings. What ever happened
to learning that it isn't if you win or lose but how
you play the game? There is also the father in Canada who is suing to get his
kid made MVP and have the award taken away from the kid
who earned it because the dad says his son will lose
scholarships or something if not made MVP. A great number
of parents these days don't want their kids to earn what
they get but the name of the game seems to be in how
well the parents can bully whoever need be to get their
kid what they want. Kids these days don't get the chance
to learn how to deal with losing and disappointment.
This country needs to return to the time of personal
responsibility! This ‘ lawsuit as well as all the other
stupid lawsuits makes ya want
to take all lawyers out and shoot them! Oh and then there
is the old guy in Massachusetts who sued Home Depot because
each and every nut and bolt was not marked with the price.
It seems there is a law about each individual item for
sale must have the price on it. And the major recipients
of the settlement were, of course the lawyers. It is
another sad day for people with common sense. What is
this world coming to?
iRv, also loved your explanation
of Hanukkah.
Happy anniversary to your folks.
Have
a safe and happy holiday season. (And tell your parents
to send up some heat!!)
BJ, MI
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Alas,
you are right and you can see what kind of kids these
parents are raising. I was at a birthday/retirement party
for my brother last week in New Jersey. I heard some of the
parents discussing how their teenaged children stay out
all night and can't be reached on their cell phones.
Can you believe this? I asked them why they put up with
such behavior and they told me that in NJ the kids are
legally responsible for themselves at eighteen and the
parents cannot do anything. They seemed to be genuinely
afraid of their kids. So, I said, "Then why are
you paying for their cell phones and their other luxuries?
If they want to be responsible for themselves, then let
them be responsible for themselves." If they had
done that all along, they wouldn't have the kids that
they have today.
I
fear that we are breeding a generation that is learning
that there is no responsibility and someone else will
pay for your mistakes and actions. They are ill equipped
to carry on this war on terrorism that our government
is bent on waging. If they do not get their acts together,
I have great fear for the future of this country. Could
we ever again pull together as a nation with the great
resolve and personal sacrifice it took to fight WW II?
I
pray that is a question we will never have to answer.
Thanks
for your kind words and I hope that you have a great
holiday season for you and yours. My folks are stingy
with the heat and they have no control over that, so
I reckon we will have to go down there and get it ourselves.
I am ready to go.
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